Sunday, September 21, 2014

9 things that are extremely useless for your life

1) Toxic friends
Dump them. Surround yourself with positive people only. This is key to living a life where your own environment can lift you up and inspire you.

2) Revenge
Do you feel hurt or angered by someone so much so that you want justice? Or, you simply keep thinking of revenge?
It’s useless. Let it go. Resentment is like holding on to hot coals, waiting to throw it at someone.
Only you get hurt.

3) Worry
Whatever you’re thinking about, whatever that’s ahead, whatever you got planned. Whatever!
Don’t worry. I know, it’s in our nature to worry, but think about it, does it have any use?
It doesn’t. It will never change the situation or even change your feelings. Drop worry. Now.

4) Violence
It’s for losers. Use your words. Walk away.
I personally find that the idea of violence became appealing, mostly to guys because of the media. It shouldn’t be this way. Violence only causes more violence.

5) Guilt
It’s time to let go of the past. It’s natural to feel bad for a bit, but eventually you need to let it go.
You can absolutely become a better person without guilt. Think about that.

6) Clutter
Clean up! Tidy your surroundings, especially your workspace. You may think it’s just some crap lying around, but if you put in the effort to clear the area, your mind will be more clear too.
Most of the material things you hold on to are literally useless anyway. The key thing is to realize that immediately and not wait until it’s way in the future.

7) High expectations
Lower them now. High expectations build up for disappointment only. It’s useless to keep wondering how things will turn out with a pie-in-the-sky mind. Instead, be realistic and then keep learning from your tasks.

8) Waiting
Good things don’t come to those who wait.
Good things happen for people who make it happen for themselves.
Stop waiting for anything man. And I do mean anything. Don’t even wait for people who are perpetually late. Get them to come to you instead.

9) Judging people
Being judged? Forget about it. They don’t know any better, and that’s their loss.
Feel like judging someone? Stop it. It’s useless. You’ll never get it right.

Focus your time and energy on your life instead.

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